Looking for the Dream Man Anyone searching for a new boyfriend is usually also searching for their dream man. In doing so, we should know exactly what he should be like and what wishes we have for him. Anyone who already knows which quirks in a new boyfriend are simply unacceptable also knows which men are less likely to be considered. Although sometimes, exactly what we're not looking for is precisely what we end up getting – and we're totally happy with it anyway.

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New Boyfriend - A Pen Pal Friendship Leads to Love/h2>

After my last breakup, I simply had no desire to fall in love again. Let alone put any feelings into a man. Since I was very tied up at the time with work and family and was missing contact with the outside world, I looked for pen pals. That's how it happened that I placed an ad in a magazine saying I was looking for German-English pen pals, but explicitly not looking for a new boyfriend. I was overwhelmed by the flood of letters I received. Many women wrote to me, but men too, and some wrote right away that they were looking for a partnership. But I didn't want to fall in love!

As I then held one of the letters in my hand, I wanted to set it aside at first – I'd simply received far too much mail to read it all. But a voice inside me told me I should read this one. I was completely swept away. The distance between us was 350 km, and yet I knew, even though I only had his written lines in front of me, without a photo or any description of him, that this was exactly the man I wanted!

New Boyfriend - First Meeting and Getting to Know Each Other

My dream man had always had long hair, ideally black hair. He was supposed to have blue eyes and a fine kissable mouth. After exchanging letters several times, I had already received a photo from my pen pal, and I knew he was exactly what I'd never wanted. But to get clarity about my feelings, I had to meet him, so half a year later I traveled to see him. He immediately became my new boyfriend, someone with whom I wanted to share my life and whom I no longer wanted to be without.

From my own experience, I can advise anyone searching for a new boyfriend to embrace the adventure of love. Sometimes we have exactly the dream man in mind that we want, and yet we don't find him, because our heart is actually looking for something completely different. Anyone who doesn't search too rigidly will also find a new boyfriend very quickly. Then it's time to work on the relationship together and enjoy the love.